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Open thread of openness

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The time limit to post comments on "Tibetan mantra same as daimoku" expired right when some thought-provoking new comments were posted. Darn it!!

The comment time period is 30 days from the original posting date to keep the auto-spam robots at bay. Anyone is free to open a new thread, but it's just never the same when you try to continue a discussion in a new thread after the original thread has closed....
On a completely different topic, What does openness mean to you?

A while ago, auntie was talking about keeping prayers "open," rather than praying for a specific outcome. That's one sense of the word "open."

What does openness look like -- or feel like? I have a friend who is very laid-back, easygoing, receptive and gentle. I said, "You're so open." He replied that he didn't feel open at all. Instead, he felt listless and isolated.

To him, openness means being in an up mood, connecting with lots of people in a high-energy way, feeling like he's having an influence on people and events.

"Engaged" was the word he used. He said he was feeling very detached -- thus, not "open" -- and he said it was a depressing feeling.

I bring this up because we have so many debates in Nichiren Buddhism about various dharma words and their Japanese meanings, etc. But even basic English words and concepts can have radically different meanings for people. Words like "openness" or "compassion" or even "happiness."

So this is an "open thread," whatever that means to you....

3 comments

auntie

Barbara's blog touches on how we define and understand suffering. Her post is here:http://buddhism.about.com/b/20...From a comment posted there:

[Suffering] doesn't just refer to what we would consider unpleasant experiences. Rather, it means that life as a whole is ultimately unsatisfying because all experiences are transient-even what we consider pleasant or happy episodes in life are only fleeting. Also, "pleasant" experiences seduce us into trying to prolong or intensify them beyond what is possible, resulting ultimately in disappointment.
clown hidden

I would say that openness is not being so ridged in your thinking that you can't allow for the possibility that you are wrong.Realizing that the world doesn't revolve around your ego and giving attention to the concerns of others.

mroaks

Check out the comments related to this Dallas Morning News blog post about a cult awareness meeting.

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